Amnon and Tamar

Amnon and Tamar, is one of the story I couldn't get it before...
Why does it is written in the bible?
How come he love her so much, in an inappropriate way (incest) yet once he had her he hates her?
It does not makes any sense

But God is good, he reveals what it means today though the gift of speaking in tongue and interprets the speaking in tongue, that's why I want to share it here...

Amnon loves Tamar so much, because of Tamar is very beautiful
1) Love and Lust is slightly different, you need to make sure what u feel is love, or is it lust

Amnon and Tamar both are David kids, how come Amnon can do such inappropriate things to his sister? While his Dad is the famous warrior, man of God in the bible, who have such up close and personal relationship with God?
2) when you are close to God, make sure you bring your family to be close to God too, because if not, the devil will try to ruin your life from the closest person around you, family is an image of God's (Father, Holy Spirit and Son)
That's why the devil will be happy if it can destroys families.

Why after Amnon rape Tamar he hates her?
3) because its not love, it's lust, it's not what he needs, it is his wants, 
you want something, it doesn't mean you need it. 
There are clouds after clouds, there will be someone else better, prettier, more handsome, etc.
If you based your love on lust, it will be destroyed, sooner or later, 
because what you've started wrong, will end up in chaos

4) Becareful with who you hangs out with, this incident maybe wouldn't happen if Amnon didn't ask for Jonadab advice (1 Corinthians 15:33 - do  not be deceived: "evil company corrupts good habits.")
little devil ask for bigger devil advice, leads to: chaos

5) Why is it written in the bible?
Simply because God want us to learn from other people mistake.

Family is very essential, even the great people in the bible, have problems with building a Godly family.
It is good to serve God with all your might, yet we have to make sure that our family is saved too.

Amen o:)